Monday, August 30, 2010

Girls Lake Trip

My friend Shannon's parents own a house on Tims Ford Lake. I've been there with her a couple of times in the past, the distant past. We always say, "we need to go again...let's plan it!" It just never happens fast enough. Well, we finally planned it! Shannon, me, Joni, Steph H. and Darla all headed up there a week ago. We got there on Friday night and left Sunday. We had a great time! No kids, no husbands, no make-up! We stopped on the way there and ate yummy Mexican food. Once we got there we found the deck out back overlooking the lake. It was so peaceful and quiet and pretty. We sat and talked and listened to Darla's dance music. It was great. We even jumped in the lake around midnight! That was not my idea and I was the last one in, but I finally jumped and the water was great.

The next morning we made it out to the boat around 10:30 or so. Darla showed us how good she is at skiing right off the bat. She's amazing! She takes very good care of her body and it shows! She has muscle everywhere! Then Shannon took a turn. She skied on one ski and then on two skis. She's been skiing since she was a little girl, just like Darla. They both know what they're doing! Then Stephanie took a turn. She got a lesson from Darla on skiing with one ski. She did a great job too. Then Joni tried it. It took her a few times but she got up and stayed up for a few minutes! I was last. If Joni could do it, surely I could too. Or...maybe not! I tried and tried but just could not get it. I got about half way up but that was it. I did however get several nasal irrigation's that day! Skiing takes a lot of muscle!!!

We went back to the house for lunch and then it started raining. Bummer! We hung out and napped a little. Later in the afternoon it cleared up and we headed back out. After a few more skiing turns, we went back and got the tube. That was my favorite. I can sit on a tube and yell! I'm pretty good at that. ha ha Stephanie and I started out. We were quickly asking to speed up and make it more exciting. Well, we didn't know what we were asking for with Darla at the wheel. That girl is crazy. She was doing donuts in that lake like a crazy person and slinging us back and forth over the wake at about 30 miles an hour (at least it felt that fast). The tube was a little deflated too so it felt like you were sitting down in the water. The funny thing about the pictures (besides our faces) is that you can't tell at all that we're going fast. The pictures look so calm but our faces look like we're about to be thrown over a cliff. But I can assure you, when she whipped around and flung us out to the side and we flew over that wake, I just knew we were going to flip! When I look at the pictures though, we were never even close to flipping! It was so fun though. I haven't laughed and screamed that much in a very long time! We had a great time. I don't think any of us were ready for the day to end. Joni and I decided that me and Eric and her and Larry need to go in together to buy a lake house and boat. We think it would be a great way to have family fun together as our kids get bigger. Plus, the kids will be with us having fun and not who knows where! I'll be very surprised it that really happens, but I can dream anyway!

These pictures are out of order. I like to put the pictures in my posts in chronological order so they tell the story of the event. Usually I can move them around when I'm editing. For some reason, Blogger isn't letting me move them. So, these pictures start with the night we got there. Then you'll see the tubing pictures, which were really at the end of the day Saturday. Then you'll see the skiing pictures, and they're out of order. Oh well. I put a lot of tubing pictures up b/c our faces in them are so funny, at least to me.

Thank you Shannon for sharing your house and boat with us. We had a great time and can't wait to go again!!! Let's plan it soon!
















I also need to say thank you to Mom and Julie for keeping the big girls at Julie's house for the weekend. They had a blast and didn't want the weekend to end either. Grace actually cried that evening b/c she said she only gets to spend the night at Julie's once a year and she wants to go back again. Julie has a nice house that the girls say is a "mansion". She has a nice big jacuzzi tub in her bathroom and Grace says that's the reason they love going there. I asked her before the weekend why she liked going there so much. (She had her bags packed and sitting at the front door on Tuesday afternoon!) Her answer was..."it's the tub, it's all about the tub". Julie also has a king size bed that they love all sleeping together in and watching movies at night. So, thanks to Julie and Mom for providing a memorable weekend for the girls.

Eric also had a big weekend. He went on a baseball trip with 3 of his guy friends. They went to 3 different baseball stadiums. I don't have pictures of their trip yet. When I get those I'll have him write a post on it.

Lyla graduates to a green belt



It's no secret that we started Lyla in karate for the positive behavioral benefits. I have to stay that her behavior has improved from this time last year. But, over the last month or two she has had trouble controlling herself when she gets mad. She resorts to hitting/kicking/pinching/throwing things, etc. As part of the belt graduation process, the parents have to sign a paper saying that the childs' behavior at home is worthy of a ninja! This time I just couldn't do that. A week before graduation I went in and talked to Mr. Klapheke and he agreed that she should not graduate with the rest of her class until she went for an entire week without incident! That was on a Friday. The graduation was the next week on Saturday. I told Grace and Lyla on Saturday morning that they had to behave with no aggression for an entire 7 days straight. They were both upset that I had talked to Mr. Klapheke about their behavior. Lyla had trouble on Saturday and Sunday. So on Monday Mr. Klapheke took her aside and explained that if she went the rest of the week without a problem she could get her new belt and Saturday. He talked to her about why she needed to behave differently and how he believed she could do it. Well, she had another "incident" on Tuesday. She immediately realized what she had done and got very upset. But we stuck to the challenge and told her she could not get her belt on Saturday. The kicker was that Grace was going to graduate on Saturday so Lyla had to actually attend the graduation and sit on the sidelines and watch. As we were pulling up to karate on Saturday for graduation Lyla started crying. She didn't want to go in. She was embarrassed. She made me carry her and she was crying and hiding her face. It was very hard to do as a parent but I knew this would make an impression on her. Before the graduation began Mr. Klapheke came over to her and patted her on the back and told her he was proud of her doing well the rest of the week, which she had, and that he would give her the new belt on Wednesday. She tried to get away from me throughout the entire 45 minute ceremony! It was not fun. But, after her incident that past Tuesday, she did not do anything aggressive again and was able to get her new belt the following Wednesday in class. He made a big deal for her at the end of class and presented her with her new belt. She was very happy! She did well for about another week or two. Lately we've had some problems creeping back up. Not sure what to do about that. I think I'm going to have to start a chart with goals for her to work toward in order to keep her behavior in check. Lyla's a sweetie but she sure is feisty!

Cartoons and hot chocolate


This is where you can find Grace and Lyla in the mornings. They both need their morning cartoons and hot chocolate like I need my coffee! The hot chocolate is Carnation Instant Breakfast that I heat up. It actually makes really good hot chocolate. Right now their cartoon of choice is Tom and Jerry most of the time. If it's not Tom and Jerry, they usually pick Berenstain Bears. I'm glad they're still watching little kid shows!

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Lyla's new jammies

Lyla found these jammies at Costco. She had to have them, even though it's 101 degrees outside! I took a picture because I thought they made her look like a "baby" again. My "baby" is in kindergarten now! Can't believe it. As a side note...no, she doesn't suck on a pacifier. The one in the picture is used by the girls to play house. It just happened to be on the table when I took the picture.

Tie-dye with Lyla

Grace made a tie-dye shirt at camp this summer. As soon as Grace came home with it Lyla started asking to make one too. I finally bought a little kit at Wal-Mart and made them with her. It was fun and easy and they turned out great. We followed 3 patterns for a certain look. Then she "designed" two of them for Grace and Reesi by simply squirting the dye in random patterns. She loves the shirts and wears them all the time. I love craft projects that produce something useful! She is shirtless in the pictures because I didn't want the dye to get on her clothes.






Lyla making a silly face...
Lyla giving me a sweet face...

The finished products! The first one is my favorite. I couldn't understand the directions in the kit on how to do the spiral. I looked it up on YouTube and found a ton of people showing how to do it. After watching one video we made this....